First let me say I love Shere Hite. She’s always got great things to say, and is well known enough to get a better podium than most to say it. And I quote: [T]he stimulation women give themselves to reach orgasm is – unlike that used by men – radically different from the stimulation most women receive during coitus. So it is not at all surprising that the rate of orgasm during...
No news to anyone who’s been reading this diary for a while that I love fingers. Love isn’t even really the right word – I worship it. It is, bar none, the sexiest thing ever invented (to me) and it can be done in so many different ways and places that it’s just… ummmm. 🙂 So when I ran across this great pussy fingering how-to, I thought I’d share. I would agree...
Rented my very first Video-on-Demand last night, thanks to my new Digital Cable service. And, being Vikki, you had to know that the first flick I’d rent would be gay male porn! Actually, I had concerns. Most porn I’ve seen on Canadian channels (in hotels and such) are generally crap. Filled with playbacks, all the good close-ups taken out (come on, you know that’s why you watch...
The Liberator: for those too large (or lazy – it could work there too) to get into all the myriad kinky positions available. Strange Sex Laws: It is against the law in the state of Washington to have sex with a virgin (even on the wedding night). Makes you wonder how the state got populated.It gets weirder. There’s a law in Kingsville, Texas against two pigs having sex on the airport...
Smell is such a powerful sense. Most of the time we don’t even realize it, but scents are all around us, every day, affecting our moods and our thoughts and our memories. I walked through the park tonight and suddenly smelled him. A lover’s scent is one of the most powerful odors in our memory repertiore; probably only second to that of our mothers. We’re intimate with them...
Well, a new home and a new face to Herdesires. Those of you looking for porn might as well back out now. Hosting costs became something I could no longer afford and I needed to do something about it, so I’ve cut everything else out, moved the diary to a free host (thank you, Ev) and here’s where Herdesires now lives, in its somewhat shortened form. The good news is I’m still...
Salon featured an article last month (and yeah, it’s taken me this long to find it… Vikki’s been a busy girl) called I Wanna Hold Your Hand. My confession, then: I have gone to bed with men, in part, for the beauty or agility or originality of their hands. Some women fall for the curve of a thigh, the slope of a shoulder, the broad welcoming plane of a chest. I fall, instead...
Something in your eyes, what is it? The way you look at me. I can’t even read it; I just know it has heat, I don’t know what it means. Why do you always look at me that way? I’m sixteen again. Knees buckling. Butterflies in the pit of my stomach. Breathing suddenly seems complicated. What are you thinking? I wish I could read your mind; Well, part of me does. I can’t meet...
With terrorist attacks and bombs going off, evil has nearly been redefined to its previous Biblical levels by becoming Evil with an E, something that is reviled and must be wiped out at all costs. But let’s not forget that being evil can be a very good thing in the right circumstances. There is nothing more arousing and compelling than an evil man. One who knows what you want and will only...
A friend of mine told me recently about a woman she knew who could orgasm after only a minute or two of sex play, no direct stimulation needed, and she was able to come dozens of times in a night. I don’t know who this woman is but I hate her. 🙂 Truth is, most women take a while longer, generally require direct stimulation of some kind, and take a winding road from excitement to orgasm that...