I recently received a letter from a visitor which read: I’d like to get your opinion on this scenario – A woman loves two men, both of them want her only for themselves, yet each realizes that the other man touches her in places that they cannot. She will not let one man cross over into the other’s territory. It’s been going on for about ten months. All three of them are...
There’s just something about a smirk. It’s one of the most powerful sexual tools a man can possess. Used properly, it can cause arousal, anxiety, excitement, and more. No, really. It can make your heart race and feel like it’s going to explode of your chest. A good smirk can do this. It drives you crazy. It says: I know how I affect you. I know you’re attracted to me. I...
One of the best Mark Morford rants ever: Please Accept This Diamond-Studded Dildo As Small Thank-You Women are less likely than men to reach the highest salary brackets and are more likely to live in poverty, according to a government survey. Nearly 16 percent of men age 15 and older who worked full-time in 2001 earned at least $75,000 a year, compared with 6 percent of women, the Census Bureau...
It’s sad, really. When I want to find interesting web sites about my other hobbies or my career, finding excellent web sites that are completely new to me is easy as pie. There is, as a matter of fact, far more excellent material out there than I will ever have time to find, link to, or read. Not so much, really, in the sex world. This is particularly true if you’re looking for...
I’ve noticed a rather disturbing development in my constant, vibrating tuning fork arousal over the last day or two. My legs ache. Especially my knees. A lot. It’s like a constant hum, a body awareness I can’t quite shake. Honestly, it’s never been this bad for me. It’s not painful, but unusual and maybe a little distressing (not to mention frustrating!). So I...
I must confess that I haven’t been dating much recently. As in not for a year. Taking an emotional break, you could say. Yes, I still take care of the sensuality as much as I can – being aware of the senses, candlelit baths, listening to Morcheeba (I’m sorry, their music will always remind me of liquid aural sex). The requisite devices that take 9 volt batteries. You get the...
The life of a sexuality blogger can be a dismal one at times, and today is just one of those times. Go to Google News, do a search on “sex” to see what’s new in the news of sex, and here are the top ten headlines: Prosecutor to Lay Sex Charges on Pitcairn Island Sex traffickers using SF, LA as ports of entry Fighting the sex traffickers Female teacher in New Jersey accused of...
OK, dirty confession of the month: it’s been simply ages since Vikki clicked her little self over to Goodvibes.com. I confess. Do with me what you may. The good news is that in my absence (and what else would you expect from such a top-drawer site like this one?) they’ve added lots of yummy enjoyable goodies that I can then pass on and share with all of you. A very handy new tool is...
My photographic sense has evolved a lot in the last few years, thanks to the plethora of photographers I have in my life, each in their own way determined to help me better understand the art and the science behind what it is they do. And of course, given Vikki’s erotic sensibilities, it was only natural I’d eventually look for photographers whose styles complement my tastes. Along...
Of all the descriptors I’ve heard recently, this is one of the best. Sasha says in her Love Bites column: You have no doubt already met boys who get very nervous and upset if you don’t come. You just tell them you’re not a Nintendo game. Remember: it’s your body, and it’s your orgasm, and you’ll get to it in your own time. More boys could benefit from this...