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the tease

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There is nothing in this world sexier than a man who knows he can make you scream like you’ve never screamed before and tantalizes you with the knowledge. Notice I said knows, not thinks – the chasm between the two makes the difference between full-of-himself asshole and confidently, dangerously sexy man.I love being teased. I love teasing others. Frankly, I’ve had much better...

deep fried ice cream

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I'm going to tell you about a purse I bought and the storm it stirred; a small beige teddy bear that knows secrets that nobody else knows; a conversation I had about cuffs and chains and vulnerability; how hard I fought against something I wanted; a song that I used to have no reason to love.

a dom i’m not

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If I ever wondered before if I could be a Dom (as most of my experiences up until now have been submissive) the past two weeks would have cured me of such silly thoughts. For two weeks now, I’ve been Mom to a four-month puppy who is adorable but headstrong. I’ve come to learn that as with many things in life, the Mom/puppy relationship is one of exerting dominance and exacting...

hello and hands-on experience

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Sorry it’s been such a quiet month. With all that’s been going on, sex just hasn’t been on my mind as much. Apparently I’m not alone, because Plastic: sex and Daze Reader, among other sex-related blogs, have been a little thin in content themselves. The good news is that I did make it to the beautiful City by the Bay, and had a marvellous time. I made sure I checked out...

everything’s coming up origami

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Ah, Australians. You gotta love ’em.Found a site a while back called Puppetry of the Penis, and thought I’d shared it with all of you, but I can’t find the entry. So if I missed it, my apologies. You missed an amusing site. Two Australian men, just as bold and brash as can be, have studied the gentle (?) art of genital origami and taken their show on the road, so to speak.Yeah...

relationshippy

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I’m good at a great many things. I’m not going to list them here like a braggart’s list, but I know them. This is enough. Have you ever found yourself wondering if you’re any good at relationships? It’s a question I’ve found I’m asking myself more and more often as time goes by. There seem to be so many questions, and so few answers, love and sex and more...

punishment… and not the good kind

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It’s difficult for me (having grown up in the Western world) to understand how other cultures view sex, and how they treat sexual offences. Even more difficult is understanding how they decide who gets punished, and how. This AP report (via CNN) discusses the recent punishment of Amina Abdullahi, a twenty year old Nigerian woman who was found guilty (?) of sleeping with another man who was...

on women and sexuality and repression

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The Village Voice posted an article a few years ago (via mouthorgan) that raises the issue of overt sexuality in films, and how the MPAA determines the ratings for those films. There are some striking differences between the way that male-related sexuality (or any sexuality through the eyes of men) is treated, and how female-related sexuality is treated.In other words, it’s OK to show a boy...

NOW I’ve seen it all

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So you’re sitting at home. Feeling a little pent-up. You browse through your collection of vibrators, dildos, plugs, ben-wa balls, creams and unguents and lubes (oh my!) and you just can’t decide. Truth is, you’re bored. You’ve tried them all, played with them all, wakened your neighbours screaming with them all. And it’s just getting routine. Predictable. You know...

on marriage and motherhood

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Wow. Serious topics today. Far too serious for a sunny Sunday morning, but that’s the way it goes sometimes, hm? First, on being a wife. I’ve been doing some thinking about this lately, since two of my girlfriends are getting married in the next year or so (and not to each other, in case you wondered). They are better prepared for the event than I was, or at least they seem to be...

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