It all began with The Book of the Penis (written by Maggie Paley). While doing some online shopping, I ran across this book, which Dan Savage (Savage Love) said “should be required reading for anyone who has a penis, wants a penis, or loves someone who has or wants a penis”. Well, I certainly fit into that group! It’s a little bit of everything you ever wanted to know about the...
Dating – more than one man, even – does not guarantee you won’t end up spending Saturday night alone on the couch. It’s okay, though, since I didn’t really actively pursue setting anything up for tonight. I poured myself a glass of wine, turned all the Christmas lights on, and cracked open my birthday gift (thanks Mom) – the entire first season of Sex and the...
When most people discuss the most romantic movie scene ever, they usually mention scenes from Casablanca, From Here To Eternity, or more modern movies with men like Mel Gibson, Sean Connery or the like in the starring role. As usual, I tend to be a little different. My entire life, one scene has had the power to sweep me away, make me cry, warm my heart, and make me dream like a schoolgirl all...
Here’s the funniest thing: for the most part, I don’t think there’s ANY problem with men. Sure, they’re different from women, kind of like an exotic species of fauna that’s interesting to look at but not always so easy to understand, but I don’t think this is a problem. I refuse to become one of those women bemoaning “why all men are jerks”...
Found another really, really super site. It’s going in my bookmarks right now. Called Sex Toy Guides, it’s the ultimate online guide to choosing and buying a sex toy. There’s a little bit of history here, some discussion about guilt and why anyone would buy a sex toy, and fairly in-depth coverage of battery vibes, dildos, and anal toys. Best of all, it’s sexy. There are so...
With the holiday season approaching – “more rapid than eagles”, as it were – you might find yourself hunting for holiday-related fun on the web. Libida.com fits the bill (don’t they always?) with a few seasonal-themed feature articles this month. Did I mention how much I love this site? Well, okay, I did. But I’m going to say it again just to annoy all of you...
Uploaded a new story today to the stories area called First Time. I’m trying my hand at other types of erotica; namely, the short-short. It’s a very short little story (kind of like the haiku of prose) meant to describe just one moment, one feeling, or one thought. It just popped into my mind a few days ago and out the story came. It’s a fun little thing. I may write more of...
One of my all-time favourite scenes from Laurell Hamilton’s Anita Blake: Vampire Hunter series is in The Killing Dance when Anita and the gang must get dressed in full fetish wear to meet the head of the local werewolf pack (they never explain why, really, in the series, but every big meeting seems to require outrageous dress). It’s a very scary meeting they’re about to go to...
First, a touch of humour mixed with sex is always the best way to bring a smile to my face. Ran across Nobscan.com today (via Inflatable Sheep) and it gave me a much-needed chuckle or two. These cutie-pies are all scans of penii (? never could figure out the right terminology) in their natural state. Particularly loved the Santa nob and the Mind Your Baubles (groan) nob – talk about a...
Yesterday I became 29 years old. I am now less than one year away from being a woman in her thirties. I remember from my childhood my “image” of women in their thirties: married kids lives in a house wears lipstick a grownup pays bills owns furniture sexless wears polyester What else could you expect? All the women in their thirties I knew when I was a kid were teachers and other...